O’Neill’s Brass Rail

52 Bank Street, New London, CT


32 Bank Street, New London, CT

GLBTQ Community Centers

New Haven Pride Center

Serving the needs of the LGBTQI community and its allies.

Triangle Community Center

The Triangle Community Center, Inc. is a non-profit Connecticut corporation that provides services to the gay, lesbian, bisexual, transgender and questioning community that help strengthen their sense of pride, identity and visibility. We work with the Greater Fairfield County community to foster understanding and awareness.

Social Organizations

Northeast Ursamen

The Northeast Ursamen is a non-political, gay fraternal organization that exists to provide bears and their admirers with opportunties to meet and enjoy time together in a variety of safe and fun social events. Think you’re a bear? You like bears? Good – you’ve come to the right place!

Imperial Sovereign Court of All Connecticut

Our Drag Brothers and Sisters, Doing GREAT work and looking fabulous doing it!

LGBT Moveable Senior Center (Connecticut – Statewide)

All LGBT elders and their allies are welcome to these monthly gatherings that are held at a different senior center in Connecticut.  Join meetup group to be notified of each event and location

Southeastern Connecticut Lesbians

Southeastern Connecticut Lesbians MeetUp seeks to connect Lesbian women from the Southeastern Region which includes the following 16 towns: Bozrah, East Lyme, Franklin, Griswold Groton, Ledyard, Lisbon, Montville, New London (central city) North Stonington, Norwich (central city), Preston, Salem Sprague, Stonington, and Waterford. All are welcome to join, even outside the Southeastern, CT Region.

Hartford Lesbian Coffeehouse

A social group in the Hartford, CT area that brings together lesbians from all walks of life to share in activities, make new friends, laugh and have a whole lot of fun.

SLAPHAPS – Senior Lesbians Happily at Play 

SLAPHAPS is a social group for Lesbians 55 & over and their younger friends, generating adventure, cultural and athletic activities since the year 2000. For more information, contact

Women After Hours

Monthly dances and social events for women-only in greater Hartford area.


Gay men in Southeastern Connecticut who gather for monthly dinners.  For more information, contact

Common Grounds

Common Grounds is a monthly gathering of & for men who identify as GBTQ+. An opportunity to enjoy community & connection in a casual, friendly & respectful environment for coffee.

Men’s Book club

Dates: The second Monday of every month
Place: St. James Episcopal, Church 76 Federal St in New London (off Huntington) in the Parlor
Time: 6:00 pm-8:00 pm
Contact: Edwin Ivey at for more info
Upcoming Titles/Dates:
  • 02/11/2019:  Comfort and Joy by Jim Grimsley
  • 03/11/2019:  A Ladder to the Sky by John Boyne
  • 04/08/2019:  Call Me By Your Name by Andre Aciman
  • 05/13/2019:  TBD -suggestions wanted
  • 06/10/2019:  TBD  -suggestions wanted
  • 07/08/2019:  Skipping one month due to long read
  • 08/12/2019:  A Little Life by Hanya Yanagihara

Queer Lit!

Queer Lit, is a LGBTQ book club for Teens  being hosted at the Groton Public Library, 52 Newtown Rd. Groton, CT 06340, (860) 441-6750

2 thoughts on “Bars/Clubs and Social

  • October 5, 2020 at 8:23 pm


  • April 11, 2021 at 3:34 pm

    Hi just sitting hear wondering how to meet another guy for chat and to get together for some pleasures. Have not been there for a long time. Thinking about it all the time.

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